causualty of love

Sometimes you have to know hurt to know love and often they come hand in hand, because what would love be worth if it didn't hurt? You would never know what being happy was, sometimes we also know hurt too well and love feels like a distant friend. The casualties of love happen everyday, the un replied text, the words that just slip out, the push that was a little too hard, sometimes jokes just sting, mostly its between friends because these are the people you rely on the most. but also the pain of love hurts because its what we're all look for and its what we all want so much that we start to believe in fantasies. When you realise that you falling but there is no one beneath to catch you. Sometimes its when you see the person with someone else, sometimes its when your with them and you realise its got to end because reality hits you, hard. But all the pain keeps us going because the happiness means so much more and we live for those moment that we will remember forever, when you felt like the queen and you had no worries. Each harsh word, or evil look, joke at you or something that just hits you so hard you feel winded, our hearts break, sometimes just a tiny crack that keeps on growing sometimes a bullet wound when you can't even breath. But one day, we will meet the person who won't hurt us but will make all those breaks in our hearts disappear, this is the person that we all wait for, some people find it young, some find it old and some find it in the most unexpected places. But right now we have to enjoy out happy times and hope that someone will help us through the bad and then stick our hearts back together with ice cream!

This was an unexpected post, but I have been thinking about it for ages and I heard a song called casualty of love, I don't know the lyrics but the title was perfect!

Lots of love me xxx